“Before I built a wall I’d ask to know
What I was walling in or walling out,
And to whom I was like to give offense.
Something there is that doesn’t love a wall,
That wants it down.”
Robert Frost, Mending Wall
When do we start to care? What is the threshold of our concern? Gordon Brown was once Prime Minister of the United Kingdom, a country with its own blood splattered history of abusing asylum seekers, especially children. Last week, in response to the U.S. bombing of Shajareh Tayyebeh school, the slaughter of 168 schoolgirls, Gordon Brown wrote, “The killing of a reported 168 people, primarily schoolgirls, in the bombing of the Shajareh Tayyebeh school in Minab in Iran has shaken to its very core the conscience of the world ….No child should ever become collateral damage in a conflict.” Brown then goes on to call for “the creation of a dedicated international criminal court for crimes against children”. As Gordon notes, this event is not isolated. Children are killed, assaulted, destroyed, broken from Gaza and the West Bank to Lebanon to Iran … and beyond. Gordon notes, “We cannot afford to stand by as yet another established international law governing the conduct of war is broken, apparently with impunity.” Something is broken … something in us. And it’s not only in “foreign lands”. It’s down the street, around the corner. Ask the five children of the El Gamal family, who have been detained in Dilley since June 2025. They wrote letters which were presented to the U.S. Senate Committee on the Judiciary on Wednesday.
The children are Habiba El-Gamal, 18; a sixteen-year old son; a nine-year-old daughter; and five-year-old twins, one boy one girl.
This is the beginning of Habiba El Gamal’s letter: “My name is Habiba Soliman. I’m eighteen years old and I have been detained in Dilley, Texas since June 2025 with my family. Every morning we wake up wondering how much more of this we can take because nine months has felt like an eternity.” Habiba graduated high school in May. She “was chosen as one of the `best and brightest’ students in the state and was recognized by a picture with the mayor with a scholarship from the Colorado Springs Gazette. She wants to be a doctor and dreams of Harvard medical school.” She stills dream of Harvard … and she dreams of freedom: ““We forgot what it feels like to be free. We miss what it feels like to wake up in our own beds with our phones next to us. We dream about how we want our first meal together as a family to be pizza and then cake. We dream of a time when each one of us will be in school and will be able to work on his future. We dream of a normal life where we still are able to make a difference in the world.” We dream we dream we dream … But, Habiba adds, “this place broke something in us. Something that I don’t know if we will ever be able to fix.”
No child should ever become collateral damage. This place broke something in us. Something that I don’t know if we will ever be able to fix.
(By Dan Moshenberg)
(Image Credit: 9-year-old child / Texas Tribune)