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September, the song was, \u201cWomen hold up half the sky.\u201d By the look of news reports this week, October, Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the tune might well be \u201cWomen and children bear the brunt\u201d. From households and intimate relations to the armed forces to global poverty, women bear the brunt, children bear the brunt. This is not good news.<\/p>\n
The new song began last Friday, with an article that centered on LeAnna M. Washington, Pennsylvania State Senator from the 4th<\/sup> District, which covers part of Philadelphia and Montgomery County. Senator Washington\u2019s official Senate biography reports<\/a>, \u201cWashington has triumphed over many personal challenges in her life. She was a high school dropout, teen parent, and victim of domestic violence early in her marriage. Her tenacity, perseverance and faith in God allowed her to transform victimhood to victory. Washington, who earned a Master\u2019s degree in Human Services from Lincoln University said of the road she has traveled: \u201cI will go where there is no path and I will leave a trail for others to follow.\u201d\u201d<\/p>\n In Friday\u2019s article<\/a>, Senator Washington is described as having been married at 18, and then living with the big secret of domestic violence, of spousal abuse. She is described as one of `many black women across the country\u2026.It\u2019s about absorbing the reality that close to five in every 1,000 black women aged 12 and up are victims of domestic violence, according to the U.S. Department of Justice. It\u2019s understanding that among those abused aged 15 to 34, murder by a husband or boyfriend remains a leading cause of death. More importantly, it\u2019s about actively working on changing those outcomes\u2026.Verbal, sexual and physical abuse are forms familiar to a large swath of black females. Historically so\u2026. These are the scars of slavery, lack of education, discrimination, unemployment and other frustrations that have been exacerbated among African-Americans. Poverty tends to be an indicator for abuse, though violence is not confined to one social class. The difference is having options and resources to escape \u2013 options not always afforded by those struggling to survive day-to-day. Feeling trapped leads many women to stay put – and in peril.\u201d<\/p>\n The article<\/a> is titled \u201cBlack women bear the brunt of domestic violence,\u201d and it appeared in blackamericaweb<\/a>. In every community, women bear the brunt of domestic violence. In every community, the language of that particular brunt, of that bearing, is silence.<\/p>\n And those communities are not only defined by race and ethne. For example, on Thursday we `learned\u2019 that in the U.S. military \u201clesbians bear brunt<\/a> of military discharges\u2026.Every military branch dismissed a disproportionate number of women in 2008 under the policy banning openly gay service members. But the discrepancy was particularly marked in the Air Force, where women were a majority of those let go under the policy, even though they made up only 20 percent of personnel.\u201d<\/p>\n On the same day, Thursday, it was reported that in Lesotho<\/a>, \u201cchildren bear the brunt of the deepening economic crisis\u2026”Adult frustration” translated into a grim reality of child abuse, violence, neglect and exploitation, with thousands left to fend for themselves, excluded from crucial services such as hospitals and schools.\u201d The next day, the Africa Child Policy Forum<\/a> sent out a press release<\/a>, announcing a new publication, Child Poverty: African and International Perspectives<\/em>. Here\u2019s what they said in the release: \u201cPoor children to bear the brunt of global economic crisis. New book looks at the brutal reality of child poverty\u2026.The book also includes analysis of the impact of the current financial crises on child poverty in the face of increased estimates of the actual number of newly poor and reduced economic growth in sub-Saharan Africa estimated to be down to 3.5 percent \u2013 implying a 7 percent increase in poverty in Africa, of which children will bear a huge brunt.\u201d<\/p>\n From one community to another, what exactly is meant by \u201cbearing the brunt\u201d, and why is it always women and children who are endowed with that particular role and capacity? Can community exist without women and children bearing a, or the, brunt? A brunt is<\/a> \u201cAn assault, charge, onset, violent attack\u2026.The shock, violence, or force (of an attack)\u2026. The chief stress or violence; crisis.\u201d To bear can mean so many things, from carry<\/em> to bring forth fruit or offspring, <\/em>but when it comes to bearing the brunt, it means<\/a> \u201cto suffer without succumbing, to sustain without giving way, to endure.\u201d Bearing the brunt as an acceptable facet of everyday life, as an acceptable `neutral\u2019 phrase, is a perversion of any vision of sustainability as articulated with wellbeing.<\/p>\n Domestic Violence Awareness must transform the language and the logic of the brunt. It\u2019s time to stop talking about bearing the brunt and start talking and acting on baring the brunt. What is the attack, who and what are the assailants, what is the violence, the force, the stress, the crisis? All must be addressed as part of the same question and part of the same solution. And it begins and ends with women, not majestically holding up half the sky but rather ordinarily and daily populating and sustaining all the daily world. Bare the brunt now, today, and always.<\/p>\n (Photo credit: Precious Jones in NCKU)<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" September, the song was, \u201cWomen hold up half the sky.\u201d By the look of news reports this week, October, Domestic Violence Awareness Month, the tune might well be \u201cWomen and children bear the brunt\u201d. From households and intimate relations to the armed forces to global poverty, women bear the brunt, children bear the brunt. 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