{"id":25642,"date":"2022-02-04T12:51:28","date_gmt":"2022-02-04T19:51:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/?p=25642"},"modified":"2022-02-04T12:51:28","modified_gmt":"2022-02-04T19:51:28","slug":"jocko-graves-two-dreams","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/?p=25642","title":{"rendered":"Jocko Graves two: Dreams"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"attachment_25643\" style=\"width: 611px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25643\" class=\" wp-image-25643\" src=\"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-683x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"601\" height=\"902\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-683x1024.jpeg 683w, http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-200x300.jpeg 200w, http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-768x1152.jpeg 768w, http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-1024x1536.jpeg 1024w, http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-1365x2048.jpeg 1365w, http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-scaled.jpeg 1707w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 601px) 100vw, 601px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-25643\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Jocko as myself<\/p><\/div>\n<p><strong>Jocko Graves two: Dreams<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Was Jocko Graves real?<\/p>\n<p>He was as real as the meanings of myths and symbols<\/p>\n<p>As real as flags<\/p>\n<p>And paper dollar bills<\/p>\n<p>As real as non-ethnic statues of Jesus<br \/>\nAdorning the churches of Black and Brown People<br \/>\nWho willingly participate in a prayerful contradiction<\/p>\n<p>As real as dreams<\/p>\n<p>As real as The American Dream<\/p>\n<p>What is the difference between a Bitcoin<br \/>\nAnd a hundred dollar bill?<\/p>\n<p>Can the subconscious mind differentiate between<br \/>\nThe real and the imagined?<\/p>\n<p>Do you know who you are in a dream?<\/p>\n<p>Are your dreams and nightmares<br \/>\nMore real than mine?<\/p>\n<p>Martin dreamed.<\/p>\n<p>Gene Roddenberry dreamed.<\/p>\n<p>George Washington Dreamed.<\/p>\n<p>A patriots dream<br \/>\nThat saw beyond the years<br \/>\nWhere alabaster cities gleamed<br \/>\nUndimmed by human tears<\/p>\n<p>Jocko Graves was as real as the patriotic songs I had to sing<br \/>\nTo start my day<br \/>\nIn elementary school<\/p>\n<p>As real as The Pledge of Allegiance<\/p>\n<p>And The Star Spangled Banner<\/p>\n<p>As real as Colin Kaepernick\u2019s kneeling<\/p>\n<p>And the Diplomatic boycotting of<\/p>\n<p>The 2022 Chinese Winter Olympics<\/p>\n<p>Although we can\u2019t seem to decide when athletic events<br \/>\nAnd athleticism<br \/>\nCan be allowed to be used<br \/>\nTo make political statements<\/p>\n<p>Waking, dreaming, and dreamless sleep<br \/>\nWe sing<br \/>\nIn all three states of mind<\/p>\n<p>But are most creative when we dream<\/p>\n<p>Bring my dreams and songs to me when I awaken<br \/>\nSo that I can refine them when I sleep and dream again<\/p>\n<p>Let me inhale my whole day and reforge it as I sleep<br \/>\nAnd heal myself in the most ancient of ways<\/p>\n<p>As I blissfully inhabit one third of my human life<\/p>\n<p>Let me sing the songs of my childhood again<br \/>\nBecause they still work<\/p>\n<p>And now<\/p>\n<p>I better understand their meaning<\/p>\n<p>Master Blaster Curtis Mayfield<br \/>\nD.C.\u2019s own Marvin Gaye<\/p>\n<p>Tell us.<\/p>\n<p>Tell us: What\u2019s Going On.<\/p>\n<p>Tell us: people get ready.<\/p>\n<p>Mercy, Mercy Me!<br \/>\nEverybody<br \/>\nIt\u2019s a Future Shock.<\/p>\n<p>Again.<\/p>\n<p>And the world is still so full of WTF!<\/p>\n<p>American miasma<br \/>\nAnd the mindless chanting of<br \/>\n\u201cMake America Great again, again\u201d<\/p>\n<p>To reaffirm a nightmare<\/p>\n<p>Rather than to refine George Washington\u2019s dream<\/p>\n<p>I mean<\/p>\n<p>That is<\/p>\n<p>If he actually ever had it.<\/p>\n<p>Who broke the unwritten laws<br \/>\nTo cause this dark virtueless cloud<br \/>\nTo overshadow us all?<\/p>\n<p>COVID-19 proves that separate but equal is still alive and well<\/p>\n<p>As we live and die<\/p>\n<p>In the gigantic shadow<br \/>\nOf the microscopic<\/p>\n<p>Although separate is doing much better than equal<\/p>\n<p>And equal has only ever been an American dream<\/p>\n<p>The difficult conversations that America should have<br \/>\nThat we have been having for a long time<\/p>\n<p>Since before Archie Bunker got kissed by Sammy Davis Jr. on national TV<br \/>\nAnd before George Jefferson got sassed by his Black maid<\/p>\n<p>Because the network wouldn\u2019t let him have a White one<\/p>\n<p>Before Petula Clark held hands with Harry Belafonte<br \/>\nAnd Sidney Poitier sang Amen to Eastern European nuns.<\/p>\n<p>Swing low sweet chariot<\/p>\n<p>Swing down sweet chariot ship and let me ride<\/p>\n<p>Before Martin Luther King Jr. asked Nichelle Nichols<br \/>\nNot to leave Star Trek<\/p>\n<p>(Because Diahann Carroll in Julia was still two full years away)<\/p>\n<p>And before her character, Lt. Uhura, kissed Captain Kirk on a planet full of<br \/>\nsadistic<br \/>\ndecadent<br \/>\ntelekinetic<br \/>\npsychic<br \/>\naliens<\/p>\n<p>Who liked to watch<\/p>\n<p>Before there were three Catwomen and one of them was Eartha Kitt<\/p>\n<p>But she couldn\u2019t kiss Batman<br \/>\nEven though the other two had<\/p>\n<p>And before there were no Blacks in Mayberry RFD<\/p>\n<p>But do you recall any in Friends or on Seinfeld?<\/p>\n<p>Out of 8,000,000 stories in the five boroughs of The Naked City<br \/>\nQuite a few of them were missed<\/p>\n<p>Because even if \u201cyou\u201d are one in a million in New York<br \/>\nThere should be at least eight of you<\/p>\n<p>Before Granny freely waved the confederate flag on network television on the Beverly Hillbillies<\/p>\n<p>Proving that you could live anywhere in America<br \/>\nAs long as you were rich and White<\/p>\n<p>And before there was a Hooterville Junction<\/p>\n<p>Or, an acid trippy Green acres, too.<\/p>\n<p>Before Sticks, one of the few Black men on Happy Days, played the drums<br \/>\nAnd before he \u2014 the actor Jack Baker \u2014 actually died of cancer in real life<br \/>\nAfter a marginal career in golden age pornography<\/p>\n<p>America has needed to have a conversation<br \/>\nThat, actually, it\u2019s been having.<\/p>\n<p>And we\u2019re not yet finished talking<\/p>\n<p>Not by a long way.<\/p>\n<p>Because conversations matter.<\/p>\n<p>Hidden under the masks of The Predator<br \/>\nAnd dancing in the Xenomorph\u2019s black biomechanical prosthetics<\/p>\n<p>We are the voice of Darth Vader<\/p>\n<p>The base voices that make the Klingons menacing<\/p>\n<p>And the voice that invites America to eat at Arby\u2019s, too.<\/p>\n<p>Tell us fairy tales for troubled times<br \/>\nOr, of a past some call \u201cthe good old days\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Which weren\u2019t<\/p>\n<p>When George Washington dreamed of a gleaming tomorrow<br \/>\nThat has never come<\/p>\n<p>Living in this once upon a time<br \/>\nCalled right now.<\/p>\n<p>But, I still like happy endings<br \/>\nNever no tears.<\/p>\n<p>I keep hearing people say that both America<br \/>\nAnd American Democracy<br \/>\nAre a grand experiment<\/p>\n<p>I ask<\/p>\n<p>An experiment upon whom?<\/p>\n<p>A sleep study?<\/p>\n<p>Sleep better by problematizing the word:<br \/>\n\u201cWoke\u201d<\/p>\n<p>While calling yourself contemporary non-religious Mindful Buddhist<\/p>\n<p>Now that he\u2019s dead, Thich Nhat Hanh can roll over in his grave<\/p>\n<p>Jungian analyst say that this chaos is the digestion of America\u2019s Shadow<\/p>\n<p>Bullshit, I say.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s the American inability to digest the spicy masala stew<br \/>\nIn in its melting pot<\/p>\n<p>(Shout out Kamala Harris)<\/p>\n<p>I say to you, co-opters<\/p>\n<p>Thieves of the worlds great cultures<br \/>\nIdeas<br \/>\nAnd peoples<\/p>\n<p>You imprisoners of the ancient arts and achievements of:<\/p>\n<p>Persia<\/p>\n<p>Africa<\/p>\n<p>India<\/p>\n<p>China<\/p>\n<p>Japan<\/p>\n<p>and Greece<\/p>\n<p>Stolen treasures housed in Colonial museums<br \/>\nWhere Keats contemplated his urn<br \/>\nAnd wrote an ode<\/p>\n<p>Because contemplations matter<\/p>\n<p>Was Jocko Graves real?<\/p>\n<p>As real as Paul Reveres midnight ride<\/p>\n<p>As real as underground railroads<br \/>\nThat had neither trains<br \/>\nNor tracks<\/p>\n<p>Listen my children and you shall hear<\/p>\n<p>All of it is as real as you want it to be.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s only real when you want it to be.<\/p>\n<p>Real<\/p>\n<p>When we make it real.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_25644\" style=\"width: 620px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-25644\" class=\"wp-image-25644 size-large\" src=\"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-2-734x1024.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"610\" height=\"851\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-2-734x1024.jpeg 734w, http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-2-215x300.jpeg 215w, http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-2-768x1071.jpeg 768w, http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-2-1101x1536.jpeg 1101w, http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-2-1468x2048.jpeg 1468w, http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/Jocko-Graves-two-Dreams-2-scaled.jpeg 1835w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 610px) 100vw, 610px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-25644\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The faithful groomsmen<\/p><\/div>\n<p>(By Heidi Lindemann and Michael Perry)<\/p>\n<p>(Art credit 1: Chase Hall \/ <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dazeddigital.com\/art-photography\/gallery\/25687\/2\/chase-halls-you-can-lead-a-horse-to-water\">Dazed<\/a>) (Art Credit 2: <a href=\"https:\/\/thejalenlawcollection.com\/collection\/the-faithful-groomsmen\">Jalen Law<\/a>)<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Jocko Graves two: Dreams Was Jocko Graves real? He was as real as the meanings of myths and symbols As real as flags And paper dollar bills As real as non-ethnic statues of Jesus Adorning the churches of Black and Brown People Who willingly participate in a prayerful contradiction As real as dreams As real [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25642","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-general","entry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25642","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=25642"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25642\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":25645,"href":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25642\/revisions\/25645"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=25642"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=25642"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.womeninandbeyond.org\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=25642"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}